When Winning Gets Complicated

Chapters 11 & 12  ·  R.K. Narayan's The Ramayana

The Siege of Lanka  ·  Rama and Ravana in Battle

Freewrite

Think of a time when someone you cared about was clearly in the wrong.
They were starting a fight they couldn't win, or saying something unfair, or making a decision you knew would hurt them.

Did you back them up anyway? Or did you walk away?

Write without stopping. Don't edit. Don't second-guess.

Writing Time
3:00

What Happens

Ravana is losing. His generals are dying. His world is getting smaller.

He tries everything — sorcery, illusions, waking his giant sleeping brother Kumbakarna.

Rama fights his way to a face-to-face confrontation with Ravana himself.

Ravana falls — but the way Rama wins says more than the victory itself.

And Ravana's face, at the moment of death, looks like someone finally at peace.

The Players

Ravana
Has ruled everything, feared everyone, and never truly lost. Now he's watching his people die one by one. He knows it's his fault. He goes to fight anyway.
Kumbakarna
Ravana's giant brother. Sleeps for months at a time. When they finally wake him and tell him what's happening, his first move is to tell Ravana exactly where he went wrong — then he fights for him to the death.
Rama
Winning. But not the way you'd expect. He pauses mid-battle to let Ravana recover from a faint. He mourns what Ravana could have been. He orders him buried with honour.
Scenario
Your best friend gets into a serious argument with the rest of your friend group. You weren't there when it started, but from what you can tell, your friend said something genuinely unfair. The group is mostly right. Now your friend calls you and says: "I need you to come stand with me."

Do you go?

If you go, do you tell them they're wrong first — or do you just show up?

Turn and Talk

What does loyalty actually require?
Does it mean standing beside someone — or telling them the truth?
Can it mean both at the same time?

Talk Time
2:00

Hold your answer. We're about to test it against the text.

Close Reading
"You have gone on without heeding anyone's words and brought yourself to this pass. You were led away by mere lust and never cared for anyone's words… Hm… This is no time to speak of dead events. I will not forsake you as others have done. I'll bring Rama's head on a platter."

Notice: he says "you were wrong" and "I won't abandon you" in the same breath.

Why does the accusation make the loyalty more powerful, not less?

What does "Hm" tell you? It's a pause. Someone deciding who they are.

He then walks into a battle he knows he cannot survive. What does that cost him?

Think · Pair · Share

Kumbakarna tells Ravana he's wrong. Then fights for him anyway. Then dies for him.
Is loyalty that knows the truth but stays anyway a virtue — or is it just a different kind of failure?

Think
1:00
Write one sentence on your own.
Pair
2:00
Did your partner change your mind?
Share
Class Discussion
Changing your mind out loud is the bravest thing you can do in this room.
Scenario
You are in a heated argument with someone — a sibling, a teammate, or someone you genuinely don't like. The argument has been going for a while and you are clearly winning. Then something changes: they break down. They start crying, or go quiet, or visibly fall apart. They can't keep going.

Do you keep going? Or do you stop and wait?

What does stopping cost you — and what does it say about you?

Turn and Talk

When someone breaks down in the middle of a fight — is it fair to keep going?
Does "winning" mean anything if the other person couldn't fully fight back?

Talk Time
2:00

Hold your answer. We're about to test it against the text.

Close Reading
"It is not fair warfare to attack a man who is in a faint. I will wait. Let him recover."

Matali — his own charioteer, the person who knows this battlefield best — just told him to finish it. Rama says no.

Notice the sentence rhythm. Short. Certain. Not agonised. He has already decided.

Does the calmness make this easier to admire — or harder?

When Ravana wakes and hears what Rama did, he "appreciated it" — and resumed his attacks.

Freewrite

Think of a time when you had someone at a clear disadvantage.
In an argument. In a game. In a situation where you could have done more damage than you did.

What did you do? What stopped you — or didn't?

Write without stopping. Don't edit. Don't second-guess.

Writing Time
3:00
Scenario
You're in the middle of an argument or a competition with someone you've been quietly dismissing for weeks — you assumed they weren't serious, or weren't as capable, or weren't your equal. Then, right in the middle of it, they do something that genuinely surprises you. You realise you have seriously underestimated them.

What do you do with that realisation?

Does it change how you fight — or only how you feel about winning?

Turn and Talk

Ravana, in the middle of trying to kill Rama, suddenly wonders if he is fighting a god.
He decides it doesn't matter. He keeps fighting.
Is that courage — or just stubbornness?

Talk Time
2:00

You don't have to share this with the class. Just think it honestly.

Close Reading
"Now one noticed Ravana's face aglow with a new quality … his face shone with serenity and peace."

This is the villain's face. At the moment of death. Read it again.

"Rama sighed as if to say, 'What might he not have achieved but for the evil stirring within him!'"

The winner mourns the loser's potential. Not his death — his wasted life.

What does it mean to mourn someone you just killed?

Think · Pair · Share

At the end, Rama orders Ravana buried with full honours: "Honour him and cherish his memory."
Is it possible to genuinely honour someone you fought — or is it always, at least in part, a performance?

Think
1:00
Write one sentence on your own.
Pair
2:00
Did your partner change your mind?
Share
Class Discussion
Changing your mind out loud is the bravest thing you can do in this room.

What Happens in the End

  • Ravana is killed by the Brahmasthra — aimed at his heart, the one place he forgot to protect.
  • His face at death looks serene. The layers of anger, cruelty, and ego burned off. Something real underneath.
  • Rama notices a scar on Ravana's back and worries he shot a man who was turning away. He checks. He is reassured it is an old wound.
  • He orders Ravana buried with full honours — "befitting his grandeur."
  • The war is over. Lanka is freed. The victory feels quieter than expected.
Exit Freewrite

Three moments from these chapters:

  • 1.  Kumbakarna telling Ravana he's wrong — then fighting for him to the death anyway
  • 2.  Rama putting his bow down while Ravana lies unconscious in his chariot
  • 3.  Ravana's face at the moment of death — looking, finally, like someone at peace

Which one is most relevant to your life right now? Write about why. Be specific.

Write without stopping. Don't edit. Don't second-guess.

Writing Time
4:00

The Questions These Chapters Ask

  • When do you back up someone you love — even when you know they're wrong?
  • What makes someone a hero? Does what you do when you're winning count more than what you do when you're losing?
  • What do your choices say about you — especially the ones nobody forced you to make?
  • Does understanding why someone became destructive change how you judge them?

These questions don't have clean answers. That's why Narayan is still worth reading.

"Honour him and cherish his memory so that his spirit may go to heaven, where he has his place."

— Rama, to Vibishana, standing over Ravana's body

Everyone in this story — the loyal brother, the reckless king, the careful hero —
was capable of more than their worst moment.

That includes you.